Language Assignment Experiment blog post for Anthropology 101
Part 1: Question 1 - Thoroughly describe your own experiences and the responses of your partners to the experiment. Did you find this assignment easy or difficult and why? Did your partners alter the way they communicated with you because of your absence of communication? Answer - This experiment was difficult for me to do. For fifteen minutes, I had to keep a conversation with my brother about a topic that we both enjoy: gaming. I told my brother about the experiment and asked if he wanted to assist. He agreed and we began the conversation. When we started the discussion, I already didn't know how to talk to my brother through body language. It reminded me a lot of charades and I was never very good at it, but I was good at reading body language rather than doing it myself. So I tried to look at the situation from my brother's point of view. If I wanted to convey that I enjoyed something, I tried to make an expression that showed I was happy like smiling and clapping, if I wanted to express that I was disappointed in something, I tried to look sad and grumpy. It was hard though to get a full conversation through body language alone. You cannot simply say "What did you think about this?" without actually saying it to your discussion partner because it can't be conveyed through body language. Which was the problem with this experiment. If I wanted to ask my brother a question, I had to express it through my body and that couldn't be done. Also, the pace of our conversation was slow and there was a lot of guessing on my brother's part. Most of the time, he was trying to guess everything I wanted to say. If I was talking to him normally, our conversation wouldn't have felt that long and I could have been straight forward talking to my brother without him trying to guess everything.
Question 2 - Who was in control of the conversation, you or your partner? Who initiated or changed topics? Who asked and who answered questions? If you conducted this experiment with more than one person, were you ever excluded from the conversation? If you think of a conversation as a balance of power between two (or more) individuals, who had the power in this conversation, you or your partner? Explain your answer. Answer - My brother was definitely in charge of the conversation. He was the main person talking, guessing and changing the topics. Since I couldn't properly transition and have a full discussion with him, he took charge. If he asked me a question and I couldn't convey the answer properly, he would change the topic. I think he took charge because of how we were struggling to talk to one another. He was able to speak and I wasn't so he tried everything he could to make it easier for me to talk to him and for him to understand me.
Question 3 - Imagine that you and your partners in the conversation represent two different cultures, one that uses spoken language and one that doesn’t. Which culture has the advantage in communicating complex ideas within their population? What attitudes might the speaking culture have toward the culture that does not use symbolic language? Can you identify any modern situations that mirror or resemble this relationship between a culture that can speak and culture that can’t? Answer - Spoken language is dominant over symbolic language. Although I do believe that looking at a person's body language can tell an observer how that person is feeling, it cannot tell what a person's thoughts and opinions are. My brother could tell through my face that I was happy, sad, angry etc. But when he asked about my opinions on something, I could not truly express the answer through my face and body. I grew up knowing how to express myself through speech and writing and that truly showed when those two forms of communication were taken away from me.
Part 2: Question 1 - Thoroughly describe your own experiences and the responses of your partners to the experiment. Did you find this assignment easy or difficult and why? How did your partner(s) respond to your lack of body language? Did they have any difficulty understanding you? Describe. Answer - This experiment was less difficult than the first, but it was still hard to perform. By taking away my ability of expression and emotion, my humanity was constrained by a flat, emotionless shell. I could not smile, I could not move my hands, head and other body parts. I also could not change the tone of my voice, so I spoke in monotone the whole time. I felt like a robot when I was talking to my sister and her reactions to my behavior was saddening to me. We were having a conversation about anime and what we liked most about it. My sister is always happy to talk about anime and likes to go on and on about and so do I. However, I couldn't express that passion in our conversation. My sister wanted to talk about characters that we loved most in our favorite shows and I tried to talk about that but she just stared at me while I was talking. Looking from my sister's perspective, it was like she was talking to a wall rather than a person. Since I couldn't change the expression on my face and couldn't move my body at all, my sister was not able to tell easily if what I was saying was true or not.
Question 2 - What does this experiment say about our use of “signs” in our language, i.e., how important is nonspeech language techniques in our ability to communicate effectively? What type of information do humans receive about the words a person is speaking when they “read” a person’s body language? Answer - This experiment taught me how expressive humans are when we communicate. No matter what form of communication we use, the most universal way we can all talk to one another is through emotions. From birth, we are taught about our emotions and what you can understand from them. Speech and words are the second form of communication we are taught after emotions and they are just as important for us humans to know about. I do think that languages are restrictive because, for example, English speakers understand other English speakers. If the English speaker doesn't know other languages and tries to talk to a Russian speaker, he won't understand him. The only way humans can understand others that are not of their native country, would have to understand their language.
Question 3 - Describe the adaptive benefit to possessing the ability to read body language. How might the ability to read body language help a person survive, obtain resources, and reproduce successfully? Answer -
Understanding a person's body language is essential to us because it can help us approach people properly. Say that one of my friends was upset about a recent breakup that happened recently between her and a boyfriend. What would I do as a friend? Ignore her evident sadness and joke around or ask her what's wrong and understand her situation. If I wanted her to grow angry at me, I would have ignored her feelings. But being a good friend that I am, I would ask her questions and comfort her through her breakup.
Question 4 - Are there people who have difficulty reading body language and can you identify them? Can you describe a situation where there might be a benefit to not reading someone’s body language, i.e., a situation where perhaps body language does not give you reliable information? Answer - I would say that it was me that had some problems understanding body language. When I was in elementary school, my parents had me attend "special" private classes during school where I and a couple of other kids are given further education on speech and reading other peoples' body languages. It was nice and it showed how caring my parents were of me. They didn't want me to have problems as an adult and those classes did help build my relationships better with my friends and my awareness towards their feelings. I believe now that watching a person's body language is the easiest way to understand a person without talking to them, but saying it's easy for everybody is not being very honest. It was not easy for me and it is not easy for other people. Performing both of these experiments was not such a simple task but it did teach me several things of the importance of expressive communication either by spoken language or symbolic language.